This is Lil Bit now. In 4 days he will be 18. I can't believe that my cute little boy has grown to look like a man. Life with you is still full of surprises. You still are my go with the flow guy. A senior in high school, amazing football player, 6th in the state of NC for discus last season, and still studying hard.
THAT FACE IS THE FACE THAT CAN BRIGHTEN MY DAY AND BRING ME OUT OF A FUNK.
I love you more that you will ever know and will fight for you till my last breathe. I love you Kenzie you are my soul.
Sunday, January 7, 2018
Tis the Season
This weekend, Elijah's buddy came down to see my mom. Tammy planned to spend time with mom because life happens and time flies by to fast.
This is posted a few years late. This was my mom's 1st Christmas away from us. We could no longer provide the correct amount of care for her. I thought I had posted this but did not.
This is posted a few years late. This was my mom's 1st Christmas away from us. We could no longer provide the correct amount of care for her. I thought I had posted this but did not.
Thursday, June 16, 2011
Where have you been.....
So it has been quite some time since I have actually sat down to breathe. I mean just how does one find the time to take time to smell the roses when there is pollution swimming around.
The school year has come to an end for the boys. Summer is here and for the first time I have realized that I have been out in space. All summer camps are full and the wait list good luck. Back to the drawing board. Well you know there is always plan "B". Please tell me that someone actually came up with a back up plan. Oh man, that was my job too! Buggar.
Moving on, I have discovered that the previous years treatment has not been as successful as we had hoped for. No worries, I have decided to try a different course of action and will be beginning again here in week or so. My emotions are all over the place. I can't decide what to think. I guess for me fighting is not a question. The biggest question for me is when do I start. My mom, on the hand, may not see it the same way that I do. I believe that in spite of everything that is going on, she has a hell of a load to carry. You are an amazing woman. MY ROCK, MY EXAMPLE!
Elijah just started phase one of the braces process. Retainer and headgear. I am amazed at how far they have come. I remember that when I went to school kids had these crazy traps on their heads and we all would start and gawk at them. Sure we pointed and laughed too, but hey it was all in good fun. Builds character. HE is a bit apprehensive but he'll be fine.
McKenzie will be starting grade 6 this fall. I can't believe how big this child grows. He is like fox gloves on the river banks. Leave them unattended and they grow like crazy. Football is still his sport. However, we are approaching the girlie stage. Help- does anyone have a cage to put him in. Its one thing to say he has a nice smile, but he knows it and has been working it. You go Lil' Bit. I mean little girls go home.
Daivon.... my lil man.... what to say about my number one guy. Five ten going into grade nine. He has taking a liking to my dad. Its funny how that works. Hmmmm. More thoughts on that later. Not a lot of plans for him this summer. He is going to go to Silver wood theme Park in Idaho with the Y. Stay tuned on that.
As for me, one can see that I am clearly busy. I work full time; in school and barely have time to breathe. One day, the roses will smell so pleasant, mellow and fragrant. But till then.... where are my keys?
The school year has come to an end for the boys. Summer is here and for the first time I have realized that I have been out in space. All summer camps are full and the wait list good luck. Back to the drawing board. Well you know there is always plan "B". Please tell me that someone actually came up with a back up plan. Oh man, that was my job too! Buggar.
Moving on, I have discovered that the previous years treatment has not been as successful as we had hoped for. No worries, I have decided to try a different course of action and will be beginning again here in week or so. My emotions are all over the place. I can't decide what to think. I guess for me fighting is not a question. The biggest question for me is when do I start. My mom, on the hand, may not see it the same way that I do. I believe that in spite of everything that is going on, she has a hell of a load to carry. You are an amazing woman. MY ROCK, MY EXAMPLE!
Elijah just started phase one of the braces process. Retainer and headgear. I am amazed at how far they have come. I remember that when I went to school kids had these crazy traps on their heads and we all would start and gawk at them. Sure we pointed and laughed too, but hey it was all in good fun. Builds character. HE is a bit apprehensive but he'll be fine.
McKenzie will be starting grade 6 this fall. I can't believe how big this child grows. He is like fox gloves on the river banks. Leave them unattended and they grow like crazy. Football is still his sport. However, we are approaching the girlie stage. Help- does anyone have a cage to put him in. Its one thing to say he has a nice smile, but he knows it and has been working it. You go Lil' Bit. I mean little girls go home.
Daivon.... my lil man.... what to say about my number one guy. Five ten going into grade nine. He has taking a liking to my dad. Its funny how that works. Hmmmm. More thoughts on that later. Not a lot of plans for him this summer. He is going to go to Silver wood theme Park in Idaho with the Y. Stay tuned on that.
As for me, one can see that I am clearly busy. I work full time; in school and barely have time to breathe. One day, the roses will smell so pleasant, mellow and fragrant. But till then.... where are my keys?
Friday, November 19, 2010
Halloween '10
| Festive neighbourhood |
As a yearly tradion, we went over to the Foxes for trick or treating. McKenzie and Elijah went as what else....football players. Daivon was a mix of a clown with a pillow case. No picks since he went with his friends.
Zach and Kylie we cute as usual. Kylie was a ladybug, Erika was too. Rob and Zac were skeltons.
There is a haunted house and food bank drive down the street. Every year they manage to help the local food banks. This year this pumpkin will be sold to the highest bidder and the money donated. I love it here!
| Someone grew this... |
| Caught in the act |
| Kylie, Zac, and Rob |
Monday, September 27, 2010
The last of the summer harvest
So, on Saturday, Elijah and I went to the garden to pull up the last of our veggies. To my surprise the potato people were there. There crop didn't produce alot of spuds. There is always next year. To our surprise, the carrots were cramped and begging for room to grow. To late out they go. I like these little carrots. The kids enjoy them for a snack. The corn was the most exciting crop I had grown. Not bad for my first time. I have come to realize that the most important this I have learned is hard work and tending the earth. We will always have food if we work hard. And its natural not processed. Even better.
I am not fond of these beans but D loves them. So we grew some and I hope he eats them. The tomatoes this year did not get enough sunshine and thus the crop was small. I have about a 100 or so green tomatoes and not a bunch of sun. Sorry mom I will try again next year. There are cucumbers still growing and lettuce. I have to go out there and get the soil ready for fall. I was planning on planting some cool weather crops but will wait until spring. Lettuce, peas, greens, and cabbage will go in along with spuds. By there harvest time it will be time for the summer crops. I am defiantly getting another plot next year. I love gardening.
Well off to get my shorty. Enjoy
| Carrots- 30 lbs |
| The last of the corn. I must say pleased at the sweetness! |
| Snap beans |
I am not fond of these beans but D loves them. So we grew some and I hope he eats them. The tomatoes this year did not get enough sunshine and thus the crop was small. I have about a 100 or so green tomatoes and not a bunch of sun. Sorry mom I will try again next year. There are cucumbers still growing and lettuce. I have to go out there and get the soil ready for fall. I was planning on planting some cool weather crops but will wait until spring. Lettuce, peas, greens, and cabbage will go in along with spuds. By there harvest time it will be time for the summer crops. I am defiantly getting another plot next year. I love gardening.
Well off to get my shorty. Enjoy
| Mum's yellow tomato's |
| Elijah on the first day of fall- 75F |
| What's left |
| Gotcha Mom!! |
| Lets go! |
Wednesday, September 22, 2010
Elijah is what.......
| Cute huh! |
Are you sitting down....
Three weeks on crutches and he is done. Back to his running jumpin self. How is that possible? Power of prayer. The crazy thing is that he wants to play in the last football game of the season. I can't believe it. After all that drama my little one is ready for more. Be still my beating heart. I am not ready for this. Would I be a bad mum if I said no. Would he blame me for stopping his football season? I ponder these questions. However, the voice of God says that he is with him let him go. So in faith, I will let my baby go.
Oh my gosh, I sound like my mom. My baby.
Yubby Shorty.
Monday, September 6, 2010
Elijah is home
| Elijah and Donovan at the playroom |
The picture below shows the new plate and pins that my bionic son has. The tumor grew back a tad bit bigger. The doctor's were able to use bone grown in the labs, less chance of rejection, and sealed it with a plate that is up to Elijah if and when he gets them out. I am putting Elijah to bed. After the fight of medine.... sleep we need sleep. Thank you for the prayers and encouragement. I am truly blessed. Goodnight.
| Joey and Elijah....Hanging in the room |
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| New hardware |
Sunday, September 5, 2010
We're Back.... at Children's
So I have no photos to post right now but the news is good. Elijah is doing much better than I had expected. I think he is still under a bit of sedation. PT will be coming in today to insure that he is up and moving about. I am going to have him take some pictures.
Emotionally, I could not have been in a better place. The support via emails and voice mails have helped me get thru an very difficult time. Both of McKenzie's and Elijah's football teams have been superb. From moms offering to cook to taking the other boys, for the first time in my life....I don't feel alone.
I shall post more later. Thank you for the prayers. Elijah has been on a ask about God path. I had to come upstairs to was clothes and asked if he would be okay. "Yup. God and you are in my heart. By mom!"
Ta for now.
Emotionally, I could not have been in a better place. The support via emails and voice mails have helped me get thru an very difficult time. Both of McKenzie's and Elijah's football teams have been superb. From moms offering to cook to taking the other boys, for the first time in my life....I don't feel alone.
I shall post more later. Thank you for the prayers. Elijah has been on a ask about God path. I had to come upstairs to was clothes and asked if he would be okay. "Yup. God and you are in my heart. By mom!"
Ta for now.
Monday, August 23, 2010
Saturday Jamboree
| Bears Defense |
Mind you this is my second year and I still have got much to learn about this sport. I will still take hockey any day.
So, a jamboree consist of half field play with teams playing both offense and defense. Bit took the field first. The other team scored and that was all it took. The bears refused to give up anymore points and did a hell of a job blocking and protecting the end zone. As a matter of fact, that would be the only point scored on the sophomores bears. Way to go. I was screaming and cheering. These boys may just do some great things this season.
| No pics please! |
| Great job |
By 3 o'clock I had had it. I told Elijah I was proud of him and went home. It was nice that Matt took the boys and went for ice cream so I could come home and rest. Elijah's team scored a touchdown. Yet it was clear that they looked confused out there. No worries two weeks until the 1st game counts.
The 29th McKenzie and his team are having another jamboree at Husky Stadium located at UW. How exciting. Is the season over yet?
| Turtle lips @Jamboree |
Football Season has begun
| Elijah at practice |
| Stop taking pictures mom! |
| McKenzie to the left of 94. |
I am still very hesitant about Elijah and his leg playing but as I am reminded by Mathew and Elijah.... Let it go mom. I will be fine.
I guess baby's do grow up.
| Hustle up! |
| He is so tiny...... |
Monday, July 26, 2010
Lil Bit has returned
OMG! I forgot how nice it was to have so much energy with McKenzie home. It is a good yet ever so exhausting. Saturday, the boys and I went to pick him up from camp. My dad let me take his hummer and when we got there, this kids shouted.... That's my ride!" Yep that was Bit. After a while, we gathered him from his cabin and you would not believe how much he grew. I swear he is like two inches talker and about 10 pound skinner.
The camp counselors love having him. A few of the girls were saying bye to him and smiling. Really older woman. I am in more trouble than I realize. Camp made up this new thing for flirting called smopping. I told McKenzie that he's gonna go to middle school and be like "Hey baby, what's your name" The grin from ear to ear was priceless. He is growing to be a handsome young man.
A few of the camps permanent workers have expressed for a third year in a row that McKenzie would make an amazing camp counselor. Bit is interested as well. They have these leadership programs that he can start when he is 12 and eventually become a resident and have a job. I think that McKenzie is truly in his element outside. I just hope that I am raising him to the way that he needs to go.
Well gotta go. I will post some pics and the lovely letter I received from the camp counselors late.
Love you bit!
The camp counselors love having him. A few of the girls were saying bye to him and smiling. Really older woman. I am in more trouble than I realize. Camp made up this new thing for flirting called smopping. I told McKenzie that he's gonna go to middle school and be like "Hey baby, what's your name" The grin from ear to ear was priceless. He is growing to be a handsome young man.
A few of the camps permanent workers have expressed for a third year in a row that McKenzie would make an amazing camp counselor. Bit is interested as well. They have these leadership programs that he can start when he is 12 and eventually become a resident and have a job. I think that McKenzie is truly in his element outside. I just hope that I am raising him to the way that he needs to go.
Well gotta go. I will post some pics and the lovely letter I received from the camp counselors late.
Love you bit!
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Life is just as.....
So just a fast update since I have a few minutes alone. Many challenges have been hitting us hard. It is strange that when things are going good trouble strikes. The beginning of this week was met with extreme fatigue. Work is really stressful and the accountant is stupid. There are boundaries that are being crossed in every direction.
Being the second day of the work week I am ready for the weekend. I am so glad that I will be going to pick up McKenzie on Saturday and then we will be staying at my dad's. Lots of packing and cleaning. Well gotta go. Write later.
Being the second day of the work week I am ready for the weekend. I am so glad that I will be going to pick up McKenzie on Saturday and then we will be staying at my dad's. Lots of packing and cleaning. Well gotta go. Write later.
Friday, July 9, 2010
Garden pics
| Elijah is pulling weeds. |
So these are our most recent pics from the garden. The boys seem to get more and more excited as the fruits of our labour bloom.
| Our peppers are showing signs of life. |
| Lettuce and carrots |
| Corn and spuds |
| Peppers |
| Corn should be here soon! |
If there is nothing more rewarding, its finding that the corn is growing. We purchased a hybrid type of corn that should harvest in 54-60 days. I pray that we have enough sun to harvest some. I am just hoping for one nice ear. I have thought about what to plant next year and when to start. The downfall.... the Pacific Northwest has a summer of July to August. So I should plan accordingly. Well Enjoy the pics. Oh by the way, its 9 to 9 and the temp is already 77. Stay cool.
| Oma's tomato's |
| Strawberries are struggling. To many birds! |
| Elijah's cantaloupe |
| Elijah's cucumbers |
Thursday, July 8, 2010
Hot update
Well it is shortly after 7 pm and the temp outside is a staggering 92F. Are you serious. Overnight lows 65 but not until sometime after midnight. One more day of the extreme heat then we get back to the upper 70's low 80's.
The fans are putting in overtime and the a/c is going strong. The kids are doing okay. Lazy dog days of summer has hit them. My mom is melting but Manny and Lota have seem to keep her afloat. With ice cream, ice bags, and fans I have been hearing from her via email. That's good.
Later after dinner, we will soak the pea patch with water. I will post updated pics.
Till tomorrow,
Boiling in Bellevue
The fans are putting in overtime and the a/c is going strong. The kids are doing okay. Lazy dog days of summer has hit them. My mom is melting but Manny and Lota have seem to keep her afloat. With ice cream, ice bags, and fans I have been hearing from her via email. That's good.
Later after dinner, we will soak the pea patch with water. I will post updated pics.
Till tomorrow,
Boiling in Bellevue
July heat hits the Eastside hard
Good Morning. It is 10:21 a.m and the temp outside is a whopping 82F. The high today is expected to hit the mid 90's. We have had a heat advisory at 6:30 a.m. At that time the temp was 72F. Lots of people are outside with their kiddos playing at the lake and the water parks. Not us. We have fans with ice and the ac going. Thanks mom.
Yesterday it was 87 and I took my mom a hot fudge sundae. With no kids around, I was able to drop in and cool her off. To bad her room faces the setting sun...the west.
I am amazed at how much information I have recalled when the heat hits. Between my mom, grandma and my aunt and uncle, the morning and evening prep starts. From salads, ice tea, water, sandwiches and tons of ice, the boys are learning how to survive a heat wave. I have often wondered if I have prepared them enough if there were ever a power outage during the heat. Only time will tell.
In much of the Midwest and the east, they are experiencing the heat with showers... lighting storms are hitting them for the next few days. I often complain about living here in the great northwest until I see other states and realize just how lucky we are.
I will keep you updated on the weather later on tonight. Off to conserve energy.
Yesterday it was 87 and I took my mom a hot fudge sundae. With no kids around, I was able to drop in and cool her off. To bad her room faces the setting sun...the west.
I am amazed at how much information I have recalled when the heat hits. Between my mom, grandma and my aunt and uncle, the morning and evening prep starts. From salads, ice tea, water, sandwiches and tons of ice, the boys are learning how to survive a heat wave. I have often wondered if I have prepared them enough if there were ever a power outage during the heat. Only time will tell.
In much of the Midwest and the east, they are experiencing the heat with showers... lighting storms are hitting them for the next few days. I often complain about living here in the great northwest until I see other states and realize just how lucky we are.
I will keep you updated on the weather later on tonight. Off to conserve energy.
Thursday, July 1, 2010
Happy Canada Day
Happy Canada Day
Today I went to hang out with my Oma. I was wearing a nice Canadian Hat, kind of like the Mad Hatter from Alice in Wonderland,jeans, and a Canadians Hockey shirt. Red of course. For supper we had KFC and D made a white cake with Red sprinkles. Mom said next year, we should go to Calgary. I think that will be nice.
Have a safe day and enjoy time with your family. I will be back on the 4th of July.
Elijah
Today I went to hang out with my Oma. I was wearing a nice Canadian Hat, kind of like the Mad Hatter from Alice in Wonderland,jeans, and a Canadians Hockey shirt. Red of course. For supper we had KFC and D made a white cake with Red sprinkles. Mom said next year, we should go to Calgary. I think that will be nice.
Have a safe day and enjoy time with your family. I will be back on the 4th of July.
Elijah
Sunday, June 27, 2010
Elijah's Summer Adventure Part 1
Hi! My name is Elijah and I want to talk to you about school. At the beginning of the school year August, until February, I wasn't paying attention. Instead of paying attention, I was distracted by my friends and I started playing with them. I attend a Spanish Immersion program where I learn to speak in Spanish. All of my subjects are taught in this language. Towards the end of the year, I started paying. My mom, my dad Mathew and my teacher had to meet with the principle to talk about my progress. I was sad. I really love my school. So, I get to work on my summer reading and math packets with my Oma.
This summer, I will be blogging about my summer adventures with my Oma Everyday.
Stay tuned. Please comment.
Elijah
This summer, I will be blogging about my summer adventures with my Oma Everyday.
Stay tuned. Please comment.
Elijah
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
Pea patch in bloom
| Weeding in the Pea patch, look at my potato's |
| First of the strawberries. Yummy |
| Dai's garden project |
| Pea patch before |
The boys are excited to see things growing and even more excited to find out that we can enjoy the fruits of our labor.....really. The corn has a strong start and the peas have been nibbled on by rabbits. I have a fence but have yet to put it up.
MY potatoes have started to bloom with white flowers, underground spuds are growing. We sound have blueberries next summer and we are trying to grow carrots. The boys have these tricoloured green beans. I hate green beans. I remember being at 100 mile house with my aunt and uncle. They had a green house with those beans. I ate enough to last a few life times.I am so glad to have learned gardening with my aunt and uncle. Love you guys.
Working with Mum
| Metal soccer guys aka Futbol |
| Jumping off the lad |
| The super blue side |
| A rope basket |
Elijah had to go to work with me last Saturday. My job location Grass Lawn Park in Redmond. Working for the US Census has provin to be a wonderful, stressful experience. So, I am a crew lead assistant, basically, I meet with the crew and go over paperwork. The government loves paperwork. McKenzie and D went to work with mathew so it was just E and me. I took some pics on that glorious sunny day. Enjoy
My little chef
| Elijah in the kitchen cooking Wagon Wheels |
| My very own scrabbled eggs with cheese. |
Elijah has taken to the kitchen like it is a natural gift. Since his physical activities have been cut due to the leg, he has shown interest. The YMCA has cooking classes for kids. Elijah went in April and learned to make wagon wheels. So simple yet Divine. For the last few weeks, Elijah has decided to plan meals and cook them for dinner. He said the least he can do is help mom and Matt since we have been putting in very long hours with work. He is my miracle child. Who would of thought that a child that was so early would have it together at such a young age. I almost want another one....ALMOST.
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